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Our top choices for Big Sur LGBT-friendly hotels

A rustic lodge with a sign reading "BIG SUR LODGE" and a signboard advertising beer flights and rotating craft.
A long dining table set for a meal in a spacious room with wooden flooring and white pillars.
A hotel room with a bed, wooden headboard, two bedside tables with lamps, a dresser, a window with blinds, and a framed picture above the bed.
A cozy lounge area with a fireplace, wooden furniture, and a television mounted on the wall.

1. Big Sur Lodge

Big Sur Lodge
Big Sur
United States
Amanda
Big Sur Lodge
A wooden pergola with steps leading to a covered area, surrounded by greenery and a pathway.
A resort with a swimming pool, outdoor seating, and a view of the surrounding forest.
A forested campsite with a yellow tent, a fire pit, and a picnic table.
A multi-story wooden building with outdoor seating areas and a landscaped garden.

2. Alila Ventana Big Sur

Alila Ventana Big Sur
Posts
United States
Christopher G
฿69,444
฿80,621 total
includes taxes & fees
22 Sept - 23 Sept
Alila Ventana Big Sur
An outdoor deck with a fire pit, seating, and a view of the surrounding landscape.
A hotel room with a large bed, two bedside tables with lamps, a ceiling light, a large mirror, and a sliding glass door leading to a balcony.
A spacious living area with a high ceiling, wooden beams, a large window, and a dining area with a table and chairs.
A tree-lined street with a stone wall and a paved road.

3. Hidden Valley Inn

Hidden Valley Inn
Carmel Valley
United States
Dave
฿4,234
฿4,735 total
includes taxes & fees
21 Sept - 22 Sept
Hidden Valley Inn
A spacious living area with a large view of the ocean, furnished with sofas, chairs, and tables.
A coastal building with a balcony overlooking a beach.
A cozy living room with a fireplace, leather sofas, and a view of the ocean at sunset.
A corridor with large windows overlooking the ocean, wooden flooring, and green upholstered chairs.

4. Monterey Beach Hotel, A Tribute Portfolio Hotel

Monterey Beach Hotel, A Tribute Portfolio Hotel
Monterey
United States
Francis
฿7,207
฿9,504 total
includes taxes & fees
4 Oct - 5 Oct
Monterey Beach Hotel, A Tribute Portfolio Hotel
A terrace with wooden tables and chairs, overlooking a sunset over the ocean.
A hotel room with a sofa, a coffee table, a TV, a fireplace, and a large window with curtains.
A restaurant with tables set for dining, large windows with a view of the sea, and hanging pendant lights.
A bar area with seating, a bar counter, and a view of the sea.

5. InterContinental the Clement Monterey by IHG

InterContinental the Clement Monterey by IHG
New Monterey
United States
Twisha
฿9,299
฿10,751 total
includes taxes & fees
13 Oct - 14 Oct
InterContinental the Clement Monterey by IHG
A building entrance with a check-in desk, a door marked 'OFFICE,' and potted plants.
A hotel room with a bed, desk, chair, television, fireplace, and a ceiling fan.
A window with white shutters, offering a view of a brick roof and trees.

6. Carmel Wayfarer Inn

Carmel Wayfarer Inn
Northwest Carmel
United States
chithra
฿5,349
฿6,379 total
includes taxes & fees
29 Sept - 30 Sept
Carmel Wayfarer Inn
A room with a large window overlooking the sea, a wooden chair, a small round table, and a chandelier.
A two-story house with a covered porch, a fountain, and a view of the ocean.
A bedroom with a large bed, a window seat with a view of the ocean, a fireplace, and a chair.
A spacious room with a large window overlooking the sea, a fireplace, and elegant furniture.

7. Seven Gables Inn on Monterey Bay, A Kirkwood Collection Property

Seven Gables Inn on Monterey Bay, A Kirkwood Collection Property
Retreat
United States
ADRIANA
฿7,472
฿8,475 total
includes taxes & fees
20 Sept - 21 Sept
Seven Gables Inn on Monterey Bay, A Kirkwood Collection Property
A two-story house with a wrap-around porch, a chimney, and a well-maintained garden.
A living room with a sofa, armchair, ottoman, coffee table, fireplace, television, and a large mirror.
A hotel room with a bed, a desk, a fireplace, a TV, and a painting.
A hotel room with a fireplace, a television, a desk with a coffee maker, and a comfortable seating area with a patterned carpet.

8. Victorian Inn

Victorian Inn
New Monterey
United States
Sandy
฿5,948
฿6,778 total
includes taxes & fees
12 Oct - 13 Oct
Victorian Inn
A hotel room with two beds, a television, a lamp, and a view of trees through large windows.
A balcony with a view of a swimming pool, chairs, and a railing.
A bar area with a long counter, multiple bar stools, and a television screen mounted on the wall.
A hotel room with two beds, a desk, a chair, and a balcony with a view.

9. Travelodge by Wyndham Monterey Bay

Travelodge by Wyndham Monterey Bay
Casanova Oak Knoll
United States
Jordan
฿3,122
฿3,611 total
includes taxes & fees
12 Oct - 13 Oct
Travelodge by Wyndham Monterey Bay
A multi-story hotel with balconies, a beachside location, and a view of the ocean.
A spacious living room with a fireplace, two pink armchairs, a patterned sofa, and a marble coffee table.
A room with a large bay window overlooking a scenic view, a round table with chairs, and a sofa with striped cushions.
A cozy living room with a fireplace, a round table with chairs, a large window with a view of the ocean, and a television mounted on the wall.

10. Spindrift Inn

Spindrift Inn
New Monterey
United States
Paul
฿8,877
฿10,271 total
includes taxes & fees
12 Oct - 13 Oct
Spindrift Inn
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Frequently asked questions

How do I find an LGBTQ-friendly hotel in Big Sur?
Consider this your open invitation to pack your bags and find gay-friendly hotels in Big Sur on our website. Visitors are sure to enjoy all Big Sur has to offer including its seaside.
What is the top LGBTQ-friendly place to stay in Big Sur?
Alila Ventana Big Sur is a top LGBTQ-friendly resort, and features 2 outdoor pools and free WiFi. Big Sur Lodge is another good option for your holiday.
How many LGBTQ-friendly accommodation options will I find in Big Sur?
There are currently 2 LGBTQ-friendly lodging options in Big Sur.
What should I do while I'm visiting Big Sur?
During your trip, get out and enjoy everything Big Sur has to offer. You and your travelling companions may want to visit Pfeiffer Big Sur State Park, Pfeiffer Beach and Andrew Molera State Park. While you're here, create some great memories of your trip with stops at Julia Pfeiffer Burns State Park, McWay Falls and Los Padres National Forest.
What is a gay-friendly hotel in Big Sur?
LGBTQ-friendly hotels, also known as gay-friendly hotels, welcome all travellers who identify as LGBTQIA+. We have worked with the International Gay and Lesbian Travel Association (IGLTA) to compile a selection of gay-friendly hotels worldwide. In Big Sur, hotels affiliated with IGLTA prioritise a diverse environment in which guests are welcomed, respected and not obliged to declare or hide their sexual orientation.
What can I expect from a gay-friendly hotel in Big Sur?
Stay at a gay-friendly hotel in Big Sur and get a warm welcome from a community you belong to. Many of our LGBTQ-friendly accommodation options offer concierge services that provide information about nearby LGBTQ restaurants and local events.

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