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Our top choices for Big Sur LGBT-friendly hotels

A rustic lodge with a sign reading "BIG SUR LODGE" and a signboard advertising beer flights and rotating craft.
A long dining table set for a meal in a spacious room with wooden flooring and white pillars.
A hotel room with a bed, wooden headboard, two bedside tables with lamps, a dresser, a window with blinds, and a framed picture above the bed.
A cozy living room with a fireplace, comfortable seating, and a view of the outdoors.

1. Big Sur Lodge

Big Sur Lodge
Big Sur
United States
Erik
฿5,578
฿6,346 total
includes taxes & fees
9 Nov - 10 Nov
Big Sur Lodge
A wooden pergola with steps leading to a covered area, surrounded by greenery and a pathway.
A resort with a swimming pool, outdoor seating, and a view of the surrounding forest.
A multi-story wooden building with outdoor seating areas and a landscaped garden.
A forested campsite with a yellow tent, a fire pit, and a picnic table.

2. Alila Ventana Big Sur

Alila Ventana Big Sur
Posts
United States
Christopher G
฿72,855
฿84,457 total
includes taxes & fees
29 Oct - 30 Oct
Alila Ventana Big Sur
An outdoor deck with a fire pit, seating, and a view of the surrounding landscape.
A pool area with a fenced deck, lounge chairs, and a view of mountains.
A spacious living area with a high ceiling, wooden beams, a large window, and a dining area with a table and chairs.
A hotel room with a large bed, two bedside tables with lamps, a ceiling light, a large mirror, and a sliding glass door leading to a balcony.

3. Hidden Valley Inn

Hidden Valley Inn
Carmel Valley
Mexico
Jessica
฿4,738
฿5,293 total
includes taxes & fees
11 Nov - 12 Nov
Hidden Valley Inn
A building entrance with a check-in desk, a door marked 'OFFICE,' and potted plants.
A hotel room with a large bed, bedside tables, a nightstand, a desk, and a chair.
A coastal building with a deck extending over the water, featuring a balcony with seating.
A rooftop patio with outdoor seating, a barbecue area, and a view of the surrounding neighborhood.

4. Carmel Wayfarer Inn

Carmel Wayfarer Inn
Northwest Carmel
United States
Alla
฿4,030
฿4,908 total
includes taxes & fees
19 Nov - 20 Nov
Carmel Wayfarer Inn
A room with a large window overlooking the sea, a wooden chair, a small round table, and a chandelier.
A dining area with a view of the sea, featuring a chandelier, wooden chairs, and a round table.
A spacious room with a large window overlooking the sea, a fireplace, and elegant furniture.
A two-story house with a covered porch, a fountain, and a view of the ocean.

5. Seven Gables Inn on Monterey Bay, A Kirkwood Collection Property

Seven Gables Inn on Monterey Bay, A Kirkwood Collection Property
Retreat
United States
steve
฿6,454
฿7,333 total
includes taxes & fees
15 Nov - 16 Nov
Seven Gables Inn on Monterey Bay, A Kirkwood Collection Property
A spacious living area with a large view of the ocean, furnished with sofas, chairs, and tables.
A cozy living room with a fireplace, leather sofas, and a view of the ocean at sunset.
A corridor with large windows overlooking the ocean, wooden flooring, and green upholstered chairs.
A spacious lobby with a high ceiling, large windows, and hanging planters.

6. Monterey Beach Hotel, A Tribute Portfolio Hotel

Monterey Beach Hotel, A Tribute Portfolio Hotel
Monterey
United States
Ellen
฿6,243
฿8,428 total
includes taxes & fees
22 Nov - 23 Nov
Monterey Beach Hotel, A Tribute Portfolio Hotel
A covered patio with outdoor furniture, a fireplace, and a view of a house with a tiled roof.
A bar area with a bartender serving drinks to customers.
A building with a sign reading 'Brophy's Tavern' and a sidewalk with a tree and hedges.
Two people walking on a beach with a fire pit in the foreground.

7. Hotel Carmel

Hotel Carmel
Northwest Carmel
United States
Charles
฿9,584
฿12,380 total
includes taxes & fees
19 Nov - 20 Nov
Hotel Carmel
A landscaped pathway leading to a building with balconies and outdoor lighting.
A modern kitchen with a dining area, a TV mounted on the wall, and a view of the outside.
A hotel with a courtyard featuring outdoor seating, a covered patio, and a landscaped garden.
A modern outdoor seating area with a fire feature, a sofa, and a dining table.

8. Mariposa Inn & Suites

Mariposa Inn & Suites
Monterey Vista
United States
Jessica
฿4,506
฿5,148 total
includes taxes & fees
25 Oct - 26 Oct
Mariposa Inn & Suites
A multi-level hotel lobby with seating areas, a bar, and a staircase.
A modern living room with a large flat-screen TV, comfortable seating, and a wooden ceiling structure.
A hotel room with two beds, a Christmas tree, and holiday decorations.
A multi-story hotel with a prominent glass facade and a sign reading "EMBASSY SUITES".

9. Embassy Suites by Hilton Monterey Bay Seaside

Embassy Suites by Hilton Monterey Bay Seaside
Seaside
United States
Maleigha
฿6,310
฿7,754 total
includes taxes & fees
11 Nov - 12 Nov
Embassy Suites by Hilton Monterey Bay Seaside
A hotel room with a large bed, a fireplace, and a balcony with curtains.
A traditional Japanese-style entrance with sliding doors, stone lion statues, and potted plants.
A traditional interior with stone walls, wooden furniture, and potted plants.
A staircase leading to a building surrounded by lush greenery and stone walls.

10. Tradewinds Carmel

Tradewinds Carmel
Downtown Carmel
United States
Melissa
฿8,868
฿10,008 total
includes taxes & fees
29 Oct - 30 Oct
Tradewinds Carmel
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Frequently asked questions

How do I find an LGBTQ-friendly hotel in Big Sur?
Consider this your open invitation to pack your bags and find gay-friendly hotels in Big Sur on our website. Visitors are sure to enjoy all Big Sur has to offer including its seaside.
What is the top LGBTQ-friendly place to stay in Big Sur?
Alila Ventana Big Sur is a top LGBTQ-friendly resort, and features 2 outdoor pools and free WiFi. Big Sur Lodge is another good option for your holiday.
How many LGBTQ-friendly accommodation options will I find in Big Sur?
There are currently 2 LGBTQ-friendly lodging options in Big Sur.
What should I do while I'm visiting Big Sur?
During your trip, get out and enjoy everything Big Sur has to offer. You and your travelling companions may want to visit Pfeiffer Big Sur State Park, Pfeiffer Beach and Andrew Molera State Park. While you're here, create some great memories of your trip with stops at Julia Pfeiffer Burns State Park, McWay Falls and Los Padres National Forest.
What is a gay-friendly hotel in Big Sur?
LGBTQ-friendly hotels, also known as gay-friendly hotels, welcome all travellers who identify as LGBTQIA+. We have worked with the International Gay and Lesbian Travel Association (IGLTA) to compile a selection of gay-friendly hotels worldwide. In Big Sur, hotels affiliated with IGLTA prioritise a diverse environment in which guests are welcomed, respected and not obliged to declare or hide their sexual orientation.
What can I expect from a gay-friendly hotel in Big Sur?
Stay at a gay-friendly hotel in Big Sur and get a warm welcome from a community you belong to. Many of our LGBTQ-friendly accommodation options offer concierge services that provide information about nearby LGBTQ restaurants and local events.

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